Monson Fonsons

Monson Fonsons

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Happy {Late} Valentine's Day, I Guess

Valentine's Day is one of those holidays I have a hard time caring about; it's up there with St. Patrick's Day in its pretty-much-meaningless-for-me status. I mean, a special day to tell someone you love them? Scoff. Every day should be that day, right? Plus, if it's a REAL holiday, shouldn't people get the day off of work, or something? 

Okay, so even though we have established that I really don't love it (oh, the irony), the question is, can I actually get over that feeling enough to celebrate it? And when I say celebrate it, I really mean, do something cool for the kids, because, let's be honest, besides happily using it as an excuse to get Olive Garden take-out to eat on the couch, Craig and I don't celebrate it at all.

Most of the time I don't plan enough in advance to do anything at all, but this year I was lucky enough to actually remember the holiday while I was at the grocery store, so I picked up some Sweethearts (which nobody likes, apparently) and candy for the kids. Then I stayed up waaay too late making them each a card, only to remember a couple of days later that I had already made them each a card at an Enrichment activity a few days before. And how do I completely forget something like that, you may wonder? (I know I do.) Not enough free space in this jumbled brain of mine to remember anything that isn't absolutely pertinent to the moment, I suppose. (It's kind of the new normal. I am not a fan.)

In a miraculous burst of energy and foresight at 10:30 at night, I decorated our kitchen table with some fabulous dollar spot decorations and extra candy. (Which no one ate. On account of they don't like it.) 

Then I went to bed. And missed their reactions to the little surprise in the morning because I was too busy hustling trying to get ready for church. I DID, however, get to see them enjoy their wonderful pink (okay, mostly orange) pancakes that Craig made them for dinner that night. It was a perfect way to end a not-really-holiday.









I just hope they are happy and satisfied for a while with this limited fanciness. 'Cause heaven knows that St. Patrick's Day will come and go without so much as a green accessory on any one of them, Ain't nobody got time for that.

Sunday, February 7, 2016

This Boy

The Eyes. The Smile. The Lashes. The Perfect Nose. The Requisite Snot on the Upper Lip. 


The Endless Energy. The Ridiculous Messes. The Snuggles. The Blankie Obsession. The Refusal to Eat Vegetables. The Affinity for Pero. The Mommy Love. The Daddy Loyalty. The Lightning McQueen Fandom. The Intense, Irrational Fear of Doctors...And Dogs. The Cleverness. The Sweetness.


The Boy. The Legend. The Spencer.

When We Were Six

So this happened. Miss Lexa turned SIX on February 1st and now I have to admit to myself that our littlest girl is inching away from littleness day by day. (Since apparently the fact that she pours her own cereal, packs her own lunch, picks her own outfits, expertly mothers her baby cousin, and goes to kindergarten all day wasn't enough of an indication of that.)

She continues to be a delightful companion, an independent thinker, a helper extraordinaire, a talented performer, a conscientious rule follower, a master hugger, and a ray of sunshine in every way.

All 2,196 days spent with this sweet girl have filled my heart beyond expression. I never thought I'd have a best friend in a six-year-old, but I certainly do. I love the person she is and the person she is becoming each day.

(Speaking of who she is becoming, she informed me the other day that she'd like to be a dentist and a star when she grows up.: "A dentist during the day, and a star during the night.")

I don't think we could love her any more.










Now if I could just freeze time...

Tuesday Trash Day {Part Deux}

As you may know, Tuesday is trash day, and we take it very seriously. Sometimes it's important to bring all of our cars to the window to pass the time between the trash and recycling trucks. In fact, there are some Tuesdays when we don't even get dressed, lest we leave the window to pick clothes out and miss the trucks passing by.


I think next time we'll bring snacks, too,

Brutiful

"All our problems stem from our refusal to surrender to what IS. To what life is and who people are. Let it be. Let it come, whatever it is. Breathe deeply and know that if you let it come and feel it all – it won’t kill you. It will pass away soon enough and leave you better, kinder, softer, and stronger.  


Let the brutal...


make you even more beautiful." 
--Glennon Doyle Melton